Quote from James A.Hart on July 19, 2025, 4:02 pmRecently, more and more people have started using tools like ChatGPT as a kind of therapy. They open up about their emotions, share personal struggles, and ask for advice—sometimes even treating the AI like a trusted confidant.
But do you really know what happens to your data behind the scenes?
When you pour out your most private thoughts to an AI, you’re essentially handing over sensitive personal information to a machine that continuously learns from user input. And that can lead to unexpected consequences.
Your Story Could End Up in a Novel
Let’s say you chat with ChatGPT like this:
“I work at Company A. One of my coworkers is falsifying business records. What should I do?”
Later, a fiction writer comes along and asks ChatGPT to write a workplace thriller. The AI, trained on millions of chats—including yours—might use parts of your story to help generate content for that novel.
Sure, your name may not appear. But your words, ideas, and real-life experiences could quietly shape someone else’s content.
It Doesn’t Stop There
Even if your data isn’t directly searchable, it may still show up in future outputs. In some cases, skilled users have found ways to prompt AI into revealing pieces of training data—sometimes even exposing conversations that were never meant to be public.
This means you have no control over how your private messages could be “learned” by AI and then repurposed somewhere else—without your knowledge or consent.
Should You Use AI for Therapy?
The honest answer: No.
AI is not a therapist. It’s not a safe space. It’s a machine that learns from input—and your private stories are part of that input. Once shared, you can’t take them back. And you can’t fully know where they’ll end up.
Think Twice Before Oversharing
Next time you’re about to share something deeply personal with an AI tool, remember:
You’re not talking to a human being. You’re feeding information into a learning system.Convenience always comes at a cost. And when it comes to AI, that cost may be your privacy.
Recently, more and more people have started using tools like ChatGPT as a kind of therapy. They open up about their emotions, share personal struggles, and ask for advice—sometimes even treating the AI like a trusted confidant.
But do you really know what happens to your data behind the scenes?
When you pour out your most private thoughts to an AI, you’re essentially handing over sensitive personal information to a machine that continuously learns from user input. And that can lead to unexpected consequences.
Let’s say you chat with ChatGPT like this:
“I work at Company A. One of my coworkers is falsifying business records. What should I do?”
Later, a fiction writer comes along and asks ChatGPT to write a workplace thriller. The AI, trained on millions of chats—including yours—might use parts of your story to help generate content for that novel.
Sure, your name may not appear. But your words, ideas, and real-life experiences could quietly shape someone else’s content.
Even if your data isn’t directly searchable, it may still show up in future outputs. In some cases, skilled users have found ways to prompt AI into revealing pieces of training data—sometimes even exposing conversations that were never meant to be public.
This means you have no control over how your private messages could be “learned” by AI and then repurposed somewhere else—without your knowledge or consent.
The honest answer: No.
AI is not a therapist. It’s not a safe space. It’s a machine that learns from input—and your private stories are part of that input. Once shared, you can’t take them back. And you can’t fully know where they’ll end up.
Next time you’re about to share something deeply personal with an AI tool, remember:
You’re not talking to a human being. You’re feeding information into a learning system.
Convenience always comes at a cost. And when it comes to AI, that cost may be your privacy.
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